McGreevey’s out….

McGreevey’s out….

: Amazingly, McGreevey is starting his press conference with a most personal announcement. Throughout his life, he said, he had grappled with his identity. He talked about getting married twice. Having doubts in school….

“Were there realities from which I was running?” he asked. “I do not believe that God tortures any person simply for its own sake…. In this, in the 47th year of my life, it is arguably to late to have this discussion. But it is here and it is now…. And so my truth is that I am a gay American. And I am blessed to live in the greatest nation… with the greatest tradition of civil liberties in the world.”

“Yet because of the pain and suffering and anguish I have caused to my beloved family…. This is an intensely personal decision and not one typically for the public domain and yet it cannot and should not pass… I am also here today because shamefully I engaged in a consensual affair with another man that violated my bonds of matrimony. It is wrong… It is inexcusable….”

Amazing!

“I am removing these threats by telling you directly about my sexuality,” he says, telling the press that if his sexual life had remained secret the state would have had problems.

“Given the circumstances surrounding the affair and its impact on my family and my ability … as governor, I have decided to resign.”

He is resigning as of Nov. 15. That means there is no special election, a Democrat — the Senate president — will fill in.

That had to be the most public coming out ever.

: It was a remarkable speech: so painfully personal.

If this were just McGreevey coming out of the closet, that would be that.

But there’s more to this: The hiring of Cipel and the reputed involvement with him is an ethical scandal in and of itself.

There have been other campaign finance scandals dancing around the governor’s office.

And he was a rotten governor. I voted for him. I was wrong. He messed up the budget, robbing the “rich” to buy votes from the middle class. He messed up development issues, pissing off both sides. He made lots of hiring mistakes. He was a suburban mayor who did not have the experience to be governor.

So it’s more than McGreevey coming out of the closet.

Nonetheless, again, it was a most amazing moment in American politics.

: Here’s the full text of the McGreevey speech (I live-blogged the partial quotes above).

At a point in every person’s life, one has to look deeply into the mirror of one’s soul and decide one’s unique truth in the world, not as we may want to see it or hope to see it, but as it is.

And so my truth is that I am a gay American. And I am blessed to live in the greatest nation with the tradition of civil liberties, the greatest tradition of civil liberties in the world, in a country which provides so much to its people.

Yet because of the pain and suffering and anguish that I have caused to my beloved family, my parents, my wife, my friends, I would almost rather have this moment pass. For this is an intensely personal decision, and not one typically for the public domain.

Yet, it cannot and should not pass. I am also here today because, shamefully, I engaged in adult consensual affair with another man, which violates my bonds of matrimony. It was wrong. It was foolish. It was inexcusable….

I realize the fact of this affair and my own sexuality if kept secret leaves me, and most importantly the governor’s office, vulnerable to rumors, false allegations and threats of disclosure. So I am removing these threats by telling you directly about my sexuality.

Let me be clear, I accept total and full responsibility for my actions. However, I’m required to do now, to do what is right to correct the consequences of my actions and to be truthful to my loved ones, to my friends and my family and also to myself.

It makes little difference that as governor I am gay. In fact, having the ability to truthfully set forth my identity might have enabled me to be more forthright in fulfilling and discharging my constitutional obligations.

Given the circumstances surrounding the affair and its likely impact upon my family and my ability to govern, I have decided the right course of action is to resign. To facilitate a responsible transition, my resignation will be effective on November 15th of this year.

Audio here.

: Says NJ.com editor Dean Betz on the NJ.com newsblog:

The dirt is about to get very deep, and the governor’s apparent moment of courage will probably reveal itself to be tainted by cowardice – maybe a lot worse.

: Here, prominently displayed on the NJ Governor’s home page is the governor’s “code of conduct.”

The Governor shall not accept any personal gift, favor, service or other thing of value under circumstances from which the Governor knows or has reason to believe that such personal gift, favor, service or other thing of value is offered with the intent to unduly influence him in the performance of his public duties or under circumstances from which it might be reasonably inferred that such gift, service or other thing of value was given or offered for the purpose of influencing the employee in the discharge of the employee

37 responses to “McGreevey’s out….”

  1. Mike Avatar

    Allegations of timing the resignation so no special election can occur are sure to follow. This guy’s dirty and this last act shows it.

  2. lyle Avatar

    Mike, that may be true. But let’s look to the positive in this.
    1. McGreevey admitted his faults.
    2. He apologized to his wife.
    3. It sounds like he is going to try and make amends.
    finally…
    Hopefully this will show America that marital fidelity is important & not something to be triffled with in the political arena…that we need moral & honest politicians.

  3. Sterling Avatar
    Sterling

    His homosexual leanings were hardly a secret – it was known among NJ republicans & democrats alike since 2001, and everyone let it lie. The story nearly burst into the open when McGreevey broke his thighbone while cavorting in Cape May with his boyfriend in 2002, but his wife was rushed down there that night and a barely credible cover story was thrown over the whole incident.
    I don’t really know how to feel about it – my heart goes out to the guy on the one hand, but his deceptions were so elaborate, that it almost seems reptilian. These include his wife’s convenient pregnancy in 2001, coinciding with his run for office. There’s something cold about using a baby as a beard.

  4. countertop Avatar

    Amazing is correct. From my vantage point in a conservatie office across from the White House myself and all my office mates are pretty amazed. It may have been one of the single best public addresses I have ever seen a politician make. McGreevey’s annoncement was both shocking, but impressive in its truthfullness, his willingness to face his demons and admit to his mistakes, and the continuing strength of his convictions. Who wrote this? It was a tremendous speech, rivaling anything Clinton ever delivered.
    As James Carville is discussing right now, there is something more coming and we don’t know what it is. A lawsuit will be filed, though McGreevy has just defused all its ammunition to shock and disgrace his post.
    I think what you saw was not just a coming out announcement, but the dawn of a new and vastly more political powerful McGreevey. My bet – look for him to secure a landslide election to the U.S. Senate as Frank Lautenberg’s replacement.
    BTW – to put my comments in some context, I am a pretty partisan right wing republican.

  5. Mike Avatar

    lyle,
    Unfortunately I don’t think he is coming out today and admitting his faults due to his changing morals. He is doing this because he is going to be sued for sexual harassment by this Golen character he hired (and apparently had already had a relationship with). He is merely getting the info out there before it came out in the press. The only thing positive coming out of all this is that he will no longer be the governor of New Jersey.

  6. TC-LeatherPenguin Avatar

    Post dating his resignation is just pulling another Torricelli move. He should step aside now.

  7. Hubris Avatar

    A lawsuit will be filed, though McGreevy has just defused all its ammunition to shock and disgrace his post.
    I disagree. If the stories are true, it isn’t that he’s gay or that he had an affair that brings disgrace on him. It’s that he hired his (not remotely qualified) lover to be the state’s homeland security advisor. That’s serious. And it hasn’t been defused.
    He’s actually spinning this to be about being gay (who cares? I don’t) when it’s about something else, I think.

  8. Mike Silverman Avatar

    Such is the penalty for not being honest with one’s self: scandal, fraud, a broken family, a finished political career.
    I just do not have much sympathy for McGreevey. Listen, I went through what he went through — the self-doubt, confusion, and fear…every gay person does…but I chose not to live a lie. McGreevey, on the other hand, chose the coward’s way out, hiding in the closet for decades…and because of his choice, he ended up hurting a lot of other people.
    Perhaps he can begin redeeming himself today. His coming out speech was brave — perhaps the first brave thing he has done in his life. I may not be Christian, but I believe in redemption and second chances.

  9. JustSomeGuy Avatar
    JustSomeGuy

    Well, the 11/15 resignation date is politics, but the Republicans would play the same politics. At some point, this is a game, and you gotta play to win. I can’t really fault him for that. It’s not as though he’s going around disenfranchising people.

  10. Chris Josephson Avatar
    Chris Josephson

    The fact that he is a homosexual should not be an issue. His cheating on his wife is the issue.
    I would always be suspicious of someone who cheats while in office. I assume if they can cheat in their private life, the can also cheat in their public life.

  11. Sydney Carton Avatar
    Sydney Carton

    Countertop: “I think what you saw was not just a coming out announcement, but the dawn of a new and vastly more political powerful McGreevey. My bet – look for him to secure a landslide election to the U.S. Senate as Frank Lautenberg’s replacement.”
    Ahem. Allowing the position of NJ homeland security director to be filled by your gay lover hardly qualifies you as a rational leader. Instead it qualifies you as an irresponsible and dangerous man, who lets his passions interfere with the safety of over 7 million people (many of whom were involved in or had close connections to the September 11th attacks across the river in NYC). McGreevey didn’t merely play politics with the safety of the people of NJ, he endangered them by placing his romantic interest, an unqualified man who couldn’t complete a background check, in that position. Talk about thinking with your dick.

  12. Eric Deamer Avatar

    He did the right thing by resigning, because this personal stuff could be used to blackmail him and affect policy, if it hasn’t already numerous times. It’s what Clinton should have done.

  13. Jim B Avatar

    I don’t give a rat’s behind about his sexual preferences or about his infidelity to his wife…As I felt about Clinton, his personal life is his personal life…
    But also as I felt with Clinton, to the degree to which his personal life overlapped his execution of the duties of the office – there is a serious problem.
    Putting his “lover” in a position of such extreme importance is more than sleazy…it’s rephrensible.
    I don’t think he’s brave: he is corrupt and he doesn’t deserve the right to a post-dated resignation…If he had any true sense of remorse, he’d resign today – the politics of it be damned…

  14. countertop Avatar

    I disagree. If the stories are true, it isn’t that he’s gay or that he had an affair that brings disgrace on him. It’s that he hired his (not remotely qualified) lover to be the state’s homeland security advisor. That’s serious. And it hasn’t been defused.
    He’s actually spinning this to be about being gay (who cares? I don’t) when it’s about something else, I think.

    Hubris,
    I agree with you that there is a bigger scandal here. However, his speach was a masterpiece and he has effectivly spun the news. Plus, by removing the element of shock over being gay, he is now positioned to settle the suit since, as I said, the power of disgrace has been removed. Regardless, the attention of the press will invariably be placed more on the gay relationship than the guys qualifications.

  15. daniel Avatar

    subsequent to cipel’s removal as nj’s security guy,
    he got a few jobs at powerful nj lobbying outfits.
    what did the governor do for them
    in return for them hiring his lover?
    MY POINT: sure, mcgreevey came out – but perhaps only to cover up political corruption.

  16. countertop Avatar

    Sydney,
    I don’t disagree with you at all. Unfortunatly, from my cynical position here in D.C. (and as a son of New Jersey who got the hell out as soon as I was 18), I think McGreevey has effectivly defused that issue. Unless something spectacular occurs, that NO ONE KNOWS ABOUT KNOW, I think any future focus is going to be on his coming out and the New York and Philly press will play it as a powerful personal story. Jersey will eat it up. Though many people will be able to see through it, the story may be powerful enough to defuse anything else he faces and secure his election to the Senate (if thats what he wants)

  17. Mike G Avatar

    I think all he did was play the victim card.

  18. Sydney Carton Avatar
    Sydney Carton

    countertop,
    Are you kidding? The Senate?! I’m also from Jersey, but live in NYC now. Most people there will be up in arms about how he hired his gay lover as the NJ Homeland Security director. The man let his passions get in the way of protecting everyone in the state.
    That he’s gay is irrelevant. Jerseyans aren’t morons, and they’re not going to let a sob story interfere with the real issue here. They knew that McGreevey was a crook. This might explain a lot of that sinister stuff going on. But paying your gay lover $110,000 to perform sex acts, instead of protecting the people of NJ?!
    This is like Clinton hiring Monica to be the CIA director. It is ****ing outrageous, and NJ will have none of it.
    Senate?! He’ll be lucky if he makes it to November 15th.

  19. dick Avatar

    With the fact that people knew going in that this governor had a history of ethical problems and with an opponent who was proven to be able to work with both democrats and republicans and clean up a city that was a mess like Jersey City was, I really wonder about how anybody with half a mind would vote for McGreevey. I lived in New Jersey for over 10 years and he was one of the worst candidates in my time there and yet people voted for him. I can only shake my head and wonder why. Did you people think he would slough off his ethical problems when he became governor in a state that has the patronage that New Jersey has? or were you all too blind to see what he was like? I looked and could find no reasons to vote for him in the first place. I don’t care his reasons and his play for sympathy now that he is resigning. I care for what a mess he has left and that the people are going to have to pick up the pieces he left behind and the lives he ruined while he did his number. I wish him luck at cleaning up his own life. I just wish we didn’t have to clean up the state because of him. I think the citizens of New Jersey need to take a good long look at who is coming along and don’t let the state get stuck with another McGreevey in the future.

  20. Sandy P Avatar

    Just some guy – but the Republicans would play the same politics.–
    No, the GOP knew and didn’t do anything w/it. The race was 51/49, IIRC.
    The Chicago Trib and how they treated Ryan v. Kerry, however….

  21. Franky Avatar

    Hey TC-Leatherpenguin,
    they let you out this far? (just in case you’ve wandered by mistake here, you know no one dresses up in pointy hats and calls themselves “dungeon master”, right?). Hey, really sorry but I’ve been busy this week, so didn’t get a chance to reply to that abusive email you sent me. But you made your point, and I have a much deeper understanding of where you’re coming from.
    I agree with the poster who says this is not brave. He’s going to get sued, it would have all come out then. He thought with a typical cunning dishonesty of the Clintons: what will look better?
    For those who think it’s brave, ask yourself this: without the threat of exposure would he have confessed?

  22. Mark L Avatar

    What is the real reason that McGreevey is resigning? Democrats have sex scandals without resigning all the time. Even if those scandals involve sexual harrassment suits. Other Democrats circle the wagons and say “What’s the big deal? It’s just about sex.” (Even when it isn’t of course — but they pretend it is.)
    Generally it does not even matter if a Democrat officeholder gets convicted of a crime involving sex and corruption. Then it is “Well, it’s those evil Republicans persecuting our guy.”
    So there has to be something more than a homosexual sexual corruption scandal. What is it? Was McGreevey planning on switching to the Republican party? Was he planning on endorsing “W” for President, and got caught? I mean it has to be a really serious crime against the Democrat Party to have forced him to resign.

  23. dick Avatar

    Given the news media and what was already out there about his affairs, what other approach could he take. There is nothing particularly amazing about this. If he had not taken this approach, the media would have done it for him and he would still have ended up in the same place. His only option was to take this approach. Nothing amazing about it. Good riddance to him.

  24. Countertop Avatar

    Sydney,
    Don’t get mad. Im just stating the troubling but obvious political facts. Lautenbergs seat doesn’t come up till 2008. As Dick pointed out, the people of new jersey knew of his problems with ethics the first time out but hired him anyway. Its sad, but I think its true, that McGreevey is a pretty slick politician and from where he is standing right now has positioned himself nicely to make a run for the senate (or something else).

  25. TC-LeatherPenguin Avatar

    McGreevey’s ‘hidden’ homosexuality was not all that hidden among political junkies; and everyone giving him praise for his courage, just put that canard back in your pocket. He’s still playing politics by refusing to step aside immediately. He’s postponing his resignation to allow the NJ Democrat Party to retain the governor’s seat through 2006. If he stepped aside right now, Brent Shundler (R) would waltz into office in a landslide on November 2. And McGreevey wouldn’t be able to use executive privilege to slow down the lawsuit his former lover is about to hammer him with. His secret was coming out so he’s trying to spin it to his advantage. And since he’s from the state political machine that brought you the Torricelli Manuever, he’s going out in a way that protects the machine, and allows him to re-emerge when all the lawsuit stuff is over.

  26. Sydney Carton Avatar
    Sydney Carton

    LeatherPenguin,
    You’re right. I wonder if the stench will mean that the voters will go Republican in 2006?
    countertop,
    I think you’d have a good point were this just the 1990s all over again. Another democrat sex scandal. Ho hum. But many in NJ take homeland security issues very seriously since they were so close to 9/11. I think that they would forgive McGreevey if it were only an adulterous affair. But involving the person charged to protect the security of the state? Nope. I don’t think they’ll forgive that.

  27. Jim In Chicago Avatar
    Jim In Chicago

    What are the chances he gets tossed out before September 15? How would that work? Impeachment? Pressure?
    Having a special election Nov. 2 might not only mean a landslide victory for a Republican candidate for governor, but a bunch of electoral votes for W.

  28. Sandy P Avatar

    Well, I think we can put (non)FLA to rest. It’s got nothing on NJ.
    1. Torchy option
    2. Now won’t resign so the voters can choose a new governor. Afraid NJ might go pubbie in the election????
    Corzine might have to spend more of his money to get out the homeless vote.

  29. UML Guy Avatar

    Can somebody explain something to this Michigander who hasn’t kept up with New Jersey politics?
    “I realize the fact of this affair and my own sexuality if kept secret leaves me, and most importantly the governor’s office, vulnerable to rumors, false allegations and threats of disclosure. So I am removing these threats by telling you directly about my sexuality.”
    OK, so he’s out. Threat’s ended, right? So then why this?
    “Given the circumstances surrounding the affair and its likely impact upon my family and my ability to govern, I have decided the right course of action is to resign.”
    I really haven’t been paying attention. Doesn’t admitting he’s gay and admitting the affair mean the threat’s ended? If so, then why does he need to resign?
    I assume, from all your comments, the answer is that the threat is NOT ended: that there are more serious and substantial allegations yet to come; and that these will distract from his ability to lead. But can someone point me to reporting on these, if any?
    And JustSomeGuy: the whole electorate of New Jersey is being disenfranchised by McGreevey’s timing. The whole state. That was, after all, the reasoning behind the Toricelli decision (by a court with the same jurisdiction, no less!): that following the rules was not good enough, and that you had to give the voters a choice regardless of what the rules said. In this case, the voters aren’t going to get to vote on their next governor at all. In the Torricelli case, they had the right to vote for their Senator, and could even have voted for Toricelli despite his withdrawal from the race. So if the NJ court found that that was too much of a disenfranchisement, well, this is a very similar case.
    Of course, if any Republicans complain about this, I want to hear their stance on Keyes running in Illinois. That, too, is within the rules; but I don’t like it any more than I did when Hillary Clinton did it, and I don’t like it any more than I like what McGreevey’s doing. All are attempts to game the system and mistreat the voters in the process.

  30. Stephen Silver Avatar

    I don’t see what the big deal is about McGreevey timing his resignation so it’s after September- he’s the one deciding to resign, so therefore the timing is up to him. So there’ll be a Democrat for one more year, big deal.

  31. John Avatar

    While the Friday morning spin on this may be “courageous revelation” by McGreevey, the fact that less than a year after Sept. 11 he thought so little of his own state’s Department of Homeland Security he appointed his lover to the position may make it tough for him to ride out his announced resignation period.
    Sept. 15 is basically the finish line he has to get across in order to avoid a special election. How the public reacts to the delayed resignation in the upcoming days may force him to step down far earlier, especially since the Sept. 15 date will be just four days after the third anniversary of the terrorist attacks. That figures to keep Cipel’s appointment to such an important position related to Sept. 11 high in the public’s mind while his sex harassmanet suit goes through the legal system.
    (National politics may play a role here, too — depending on which poll you believe, New Jersey either is or isn’t competitive. If the former’s true, I’m sure the Kerry campaign would like to have McGreevey as far out of the public spotlight as possible in the run-up to Election Day, something that won’t happen if he’s staying in office until Nov. 15. I would guess their ideal situation would be for the governor to tough it out until Sept. 16, then step down, so Kerry won’t have that baggage to worry about during the final six weeks of the campaign)

  32. Jim In Chicago Avatar
    Jim In Chicago

    Per John’s comment, the Dems must think that NJ is in play, otherwise why have McG stick around another three months calling attention to scandal? — scandal referring not the gay affair but the other stuff. Just to hold onto the governorship for one extra year?

  33. Sandy P Avatar

    I’m from IL and Oberweis got shafted.
    It’s wrong, but going to be very, very entertaining!
    IL pubbies deserve to go down, the old guard/combine must be destroyed before it can be rebuilt.

  34. Karen Avatar

    McGreevey is slime. He abused two women by using them as props. He is not noble. His speech was written by a PR person. Its freaking NJ, he can be gay AND weird. The idea that anyone bought his “struggle” is so pathetic. He has been caught before, just now they have videos and recordings from a lover paid with NJ tax dollars. Hey folks, there are other gay politicians. The are just more honest and don’t humiliate women repeatedly, then get praised by a screwed up, gullible politically correct public.
    I hope his wives get tested.

  35. Mike Avatar

    People please realize this has absolutely nothing to do with being gay. I could care less if he was screwing chickens. His coming out is his smoke-screen covering up all the other scandals he had while in office and the ones that are sure to come out now. He knew the liberal media would eat up the whole “I’m a gay American” thing.

  36. George Avatar

    What will be really fun now is watching the Republicans make yet another attempt at perfecting the role of Javert while they cavort with their own interns in the backroom. And they will end up less popular than ever in NJ (can anybody say “Brett Shundler” and “Landslide Loss”) as a result.
    McGreevy was a lousy and corrupt governor. But now he is a sympathetic figure. The Republicans are already trying to act all moralistic and get in front of the issue by filing lawsuits and will end up looking like baffoons as a result.
    Remember that after years of attacks by the “Moral” wing of the Republican party, Clinton left office with the highest positive ratings for an end of term President ever recorded.